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When It Doesn't Make Sense

12/7/2017

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The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, saves those whose spirit is crushed. Psalm 34:19

Every once in a while something happens that I just can’t seem to find the joyful words for.  Several times since the Joyful Words blog began, I’ve needed to write a piece that presented my best attempt at trying to explain the unexplainable, offer comfort to the miserable and provide a window from which to catch a glimpse of the beauty nestled deeply in a tragedy.  Today is one of those days and I pray the Holy Spirit will use my typing to apply some healing balm and loving peace to a  hurting community.

From a human perspective, the best ending to life on earth would be to simply lie down for a nap at the ripe old age of 90 something and peacefully pass from this dwelling to the next.  No pain, no suffering, no trauma, no mess.  The problem is, that’s not often the way it all goes down.  This week our little community has fallen to it’s knees; both in prayer and in grief as we mourn the loss of a beautiful little 10 year old named Samantha.  She was a joyful light so full of love and life.  We  had a one day window to beg for a miracle before the Lord called her home. Now we’re all trying to fit the pieces back together.  As teachers and parents we’re trying to help nearly 300 children process something they can’t wrap their heads or their hearts around.  As family, friends and brothers and sisters in Christ we’re reaching out to a family that is stunned and a little broken.  As Christians, we’re trying to trustingly grab on to the peace and comfort of the Father.  And as humans, we’re confused, broken hearted and perhaps even a little bit angry.

I suppose the greatest tragedy of all would be for us to stay stuck right where we are.  God doesn’t make this stuff happen.  He doesn’t plan it or will it, but he sure does meet us in the middle of it and lead us through it. He didn’t turn his back on us and ignore our plea for a miracle.  Our hope wasn’t wasted and our faith wasn’t ignored. It’s ok to not have a crystal clear understanding of things; it’s ok if we can’t figure things all out; it’s ok if stuff just doesn’t make sense.  Having faith doesn’t guarantee understanding. God is so much bigger than our pain and he is so much stronger than our suffering.  Those are the truths we need to stand on in times like these.

In the midst of the hard and the ugly this week there has been tremendous grace and overwhelming love.  I’ve had a front row seat to some amazing views this week and I’ve seen heartwarming beauty come from deep sadness.  Our miracle may not have looked the way we wanted it to but I’d like to share a few of the many little miracles of the week because they bring hope and they are a reminder that God loves us so richly and he’s too fond of us to leave us right where we are. 

**Just like Mr. Rogers said, “Look for the helpers.”  This week we have seen so, so many amazing helpers who have brought food, counseling and comfort to our students and staff.  Helpers have transformed our school gym into a space of magnificent beauty to gather for prayer, and comfort as we celebrate the life of a sweet little girl.  My favorite helpers are the army of folks who have swaddled Samantha’s family with love and prayers.

**Words aren’t always necessary.  Sometimes the greatest act of compassion is to reach out  and hold someones hand or offer them a tissue for their leaky eyes and drippy nose. It’s been a wonder to see the big kids take care of the little kids and see classmates lifting each other up in those moments when it just gets overwhelming.

**The power of family is unshakable when they are united in faith and prayer. 

**The Holy Spirit always sends the right words when you ask for them and sometimes what he sends comes out a little twisted and that’s ok too because that often creates laughter and he know when that’s what you need most!

**There is absolutely nothing that can’t be made better when surrounded by prayer and the phrase, Jesus I trust in you is a powerhouse!

**Super Heroes sometimes come in the form of a 10 year old twin sister with the courage of a warrior, armed with the strength and the power and the love to make sure we had all the inside information about her sister so we could honor her memory perfectly.

**Together, united in trust and faith, guided by the Grace of God, anything is possible and joy can be found even on the darkest day.

I’m reminded of a line from one of my favorite movies, “Sometimes life is hard for no particular reason at all!”  I may not be able to find a good reason for the events of this week but I sure can find God and his goodness splattered everywhere I look.

A Seed To Plant:  Please say a prayer for peace and comfort for Samantha’s family.

Blessings on  your day!










6 Comments
Tara Hengesbach
12/7/2017 06:21:00 am

I can certainly say that it was so beautiful to witness all the love, support, and prayers that is happening amongst students and staff at St. Mary's school. Thank you for continuing to offer your writings for all of us. The holy spirit has certainly been amazing in guiding our tongues this week.

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Geri Gross
12/7/2017 07:03:16 am

Prayer for the family & the community

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Linda Miller
12/7/2017 08:28:57 am

Thanks for those beautiful words! Praying for Samantha's family anf your community. One of the biggest blessings of a small community is the outpouring of love, laughter, and friendship during tough times. Hugs!

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Beth Rzepecki
12/7/2017 08:18:26 am

This is a beautiful statement about a tragic event. Thank God for the loving community of Westphalia. It takes a village and Westphalia takes care of its own. Prayers for the family, the school, and the community.

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Jan Morey
12/7/2017 08:39:19 am

Beautiful words. Prayers for Samantha and her family.

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Deb Bitner
12/7/2017 11:16:35 am

We are praying for in here in Texas. The Lord is with each and everyone of you. Your words were well said. God bless.

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