The Second Be

Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise think about these things. Philippians 4:8

So after what I hope was a “BE LOUD” sort of weekend, it’s time to move to the second be; “BE WIDE-EYED”  Before I launch into the  second Be, we need to go back  to an episode of Little House on the Prairie. (If you weren’t a viewer…is that even possible? think of any old western with plow horses.)  The horses working in the field or hauling the family to town in the wagon often wore blinders.  These little square leather pieces were meant to focus horses on the path and avoid distractions.  It seems logical and safe don’t you think?  There are days I think it would be helpful to have a pair so I could focus on one task at a time instead of looking around and seeing a dozen things to do and jumping from task to task.

Sometimes we are like those horses with blinders and we plow full speed ahead focused on one thing.  The problem though, is when we struggle with anxiety and worry the thing we’re “laser focused” on is usually  adding to our struggle instead of leading us away from it.  The second Be challenges us to Be Wide-Eyed and notice what’s on the other side of those blinders.  There are a hundred things wrong with this world today.  There is tragedy, violence, disaster and evil in all corners of the globe.  There is also sorrow, pain, sickness, financial struggle, relationship trouble and plain ole worry settled into all the corners of our daily life and it’s easy to get caught with “blinder vision” and see only those things.  St. Paul in his letter to the Philippians encouraged them to look WIDER and he even told them exactly what to focus on.  

Today, I’m going to pull a St. Paul and tell you exactly the  same thing.  You absolutely can see the yuck…there is a lot of it but I’m going to encourage you to take off the blinders and look to the left and to the right.  I’m going to ask you to look for the things that are good, just, noble and lovely.  I don’t for one hot second want to diminish the reality of the hurt and confusion that may be sitting on your heart, I’m just asking you to notice all the other stuff God is showing you.  Bad news always leads.  Lies and negative spins on stuff seem sparklier than a story about a four year old spending all his birthday money to buy cake mixes to make cupcakes for the firefighters and policemen in his neighborhood which he sweetly delivered in his little red wagon.  A story about deceit and violence will get more reads, likes and comments than the article about NICU nurses who dressed premies for Halloween or National Kindness day.  It’s a good idea to take down the blinders and see what you’re missing.  We have to ask hard questions and make touch choices like turning off the news, cutting back or eliminating social media or other places that are feeding our worry and anxiety.  When I quit watching the news I was afraid I’d be “out of the loop”.  Funny thing is, I didn’t  really want to be in the loop in the first place.  Another funny thing, the world didn’t change when I stopped watching the circus; but I did.

We live in a world of great people doing great stuff…do you see it?  I had a visit from a group of 5th grade boys on Halloween night who brought me hot coffee and I have a student who copied my favorite Scripture verse in perfect cursive with a glitter gel pen…beautiful!  I watched a 6th grade brother visit a first grade sister who forgot her lunch delivering half of everything that was in his lunch pail.  The sandwich was torn in half and a half a bag of Doritos were poured onto the sandwich and wrapped in a paper towel.  He split the apple in half with his desk scissors and gave her one of his two Hershey Kisses.  The whole exchange happened in silence behind the coat rack in my classroom.  Words aren’t needed to define that kind of love and humility.  I still cry every time I remember that morning.  If I hadn’t been wide-eyed I would have missed something beautiful.  If you’re struggling I’ll ask you to look for the positive, the good, the lovely and excellent going on all around you.  If you love someone who is struggling I’ll ask you to point it out and maybe even be the one who creates a little positive event in their life.  A note or text, a flower or favorite snack delivered anonymously or personally with a hug and a prayer make a huge difference.  One more thought, when we’re struggling, there is nothing that can pull us out of  a slump faster than turning our focus to someone else.  If I’m having a lousy day, seeing only my own yuck,  doing a positive act for someone can snap me out of a funk faster than anything I can think of.  There is a quote from a favorite movie, The Shack and it  just  seems to fit this BE.  The line comes when God is speaking to Mac and God says,  “When all you see is your own pain, you loose sight of Me.”  BE WIDE-EYED this week and look for the positive things St. Paul points us to.

A Seed To Plant:  Add the second BE to your list and then begin looking!  Please share the wide-eyed things you’re seeing so we can all enjoy!​

Blessings on your day!