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Pick Up Your Cross

3/12/2018

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Then He said, “If anyone wants to follow me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily…” Luke 9:23

I know two women who battled cancer.  Upon diagnosis the first woman said, “Why me God, I’ve tried to lead a good life, why would you punish me like this?”  The second woman said, “Well God, why not me!  I’m sure you could have picked someone holier and stronger but you didn’t so please show me how to use this suffering to bring me and those who love me closer to You.” I know for a fact that the second woman clung to this passage from Luke’s Gospel like a life raft; that woman was my mom! 

If the greatest, purest, holiest most awesome man to ever walk this earth experienced suffering, pain and anguish what in the world makes us think we should be exempt?  Time and again I greet inconveniences and small sufferings with distain instead of embracing them and allowing them to help me grow in faith.  Little things like a car that won’t start, a checkbook that won’t balance and a pile of dirty laundry that multiplies at the speed of light are my crosses to bear.  Some days I’m a lousy cross bearer!  I like to wiggle and whine and pout.  I like to climb on my soap box and lament the fact that if my family appreciated me and respected me the way I deserved I would get a little more help and cooperation. Truth is, loving and serving my family with my whole heart is part of my vocation as a mother and sometimes it is exactly the cross I am called to bear.

My mother always said,” The greatest way to serve God is to serve others; so go fold the socks and serve God!” It truly takes a servants heart to take up our daily crosses.  The burdens and sufferings of our days are meant to help us depend on the love of the Father.  The harder we lean on Him as we bear our crosses, the more united we become to Him and the less important our needs, wishes and desires become. My mom understood that completely and lived that understanding beautifully right to the end!

A Seed To Plant:  Make a list of the crosses you need to “take up”.  Ask God to help you see how to do it gracefully and faithfully.  Make a note of someone in your life that bears a heavy cross in an inspiring way and think about what you can learn from their example.​

Blessings on your day!

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Mellan
3/12/2018 11:57:03 am

Thank you, a true reminder that God does not give you anything more than can't handle! Be blessed

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Em
3/13/2018 08:49:08 am

I started subscribing to your blog after I read your article on the January/February 2018 Faith magazine. I again loved your article on the March 2018 issue, and every blog entries you posted since I recently subscribed. Your "Pick Up Your Cross" is especially relevant to my current life challenges of finding support for ailing parents and a son with learning disability. I thank you for sharing the encouraging words from your Mom as an example and inspiration so that I can thank God for my sufferings too. All in all, your writing has given me strength to carry on these days. Thank you!

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