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Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light for my path. 

– Psalm 119:105

Out Loud

10/30/2014

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Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.   Romans 8:26

There is a big difference between being uncomfortable about doing something and being terrified about doing something!  Up until a couple years ago, spontaneously praying out loud put me in the terrified zone!  What if I said something wrong?  What if my words didn’t make sense?  What if a more eloquent prayer was in my midst and they thought my word choice was silly?  What if I can’t think of anything to say at all and I get struck by lightning because I’m a lousy out-loud prayer?  Oh boy did I have a list of reasons and reservations that prohibited me from leading spontaneous prayer every time I was asked. At first I was ok with the fact that I seemed justified in never being the prayer leader but then something started gnawing at me.  I had to think and pray about it for a long time before I could build up the courage to give it a try and once I took that first step, I learned so much; so today seems like the perfect day to share what I learned!

As I was wrestling with this, I heard a speaker say something that made a light come on in my head. (Actually it was more like a gigantic powerful search light!)  She said, “People today are sleeping with each other before they are praying with each other because the act of praying with another person is a deeply personal and intimate act.” Holy cow!  If you needed a prayer warrior I was your girl…but I was gonna do my prayin in my morning prayer chair with just me and Jesus! The out loud spontaneous stuff was better left to the professionals but I realized through that speakers powerful words, the Holy Spirit was calling me to hand him my terrified. The real lessons came when I started with just simple opening or closing prayer for a meeting here and there.  I was getting through them feeling a little less like throwing up each time until the night I was asked to do the opening prayer and the guy across the table from me did the closing and his prayer was so beautiful and simple and powerful and I felt like a prayer flop.  I asked him after the meeting how he was able to craft such perfect words and he said, “I don’t! Step one is ask the Holy Spirit to send the words he wants you to speak, step two, know in your heart he will and step three, get out of the way and don’t give a second thought to how you sound because it isn’t about you at all!”  That was some powerful advice!

This fall the seed has grown and I’ve been amazed at the situations and lessons I’ve gotten about praying out loud.  Last week I was doing a staff retreat for a lovely parish staff and at the end of the day one of the participants was upset after receiving a phone call and I bumped into her as she was headed into the church to pray.  We spoke briefly and I headed off to my car but I just couldn’t ignore the voice that was telling me to go back and ask her if she wanted me to pray with her.  It was as if my feet weighed a hundred pounds and I just couldn’t move them down the sidewalk so I turned around and headed back into church and ask her if she wanted to pray together.  I was glad I went back but I’m not gonna lie, I was a tiny bit relieved when she said she thought she would be ok. I was doubting instead of trusting.   I found out later that simply offering to pray with her was a blessing to her heart.  On Sunday I was asked to MC a fabulous night of praise and worship at our parish.  I prayed about it for days before I said yes and even though part of me wanted to say no, every confirmation in prayer told me to say yes.  As the night drew nearer I got more rattled.  It would be out loud praying at several intervals during the 90 minute event.  That was way out of my comfort zone especially since there was going to be a big crowd.  I prepared and printed and planned and felt ok about it.  When the evening started, they turned the lights way down and the flashlight I grabbed didn’t work so I couldn’t read a single word I had printed and written.  It was an instant lesson in trusting the power of the Holy Spirit!

God wasn’t finished with the subject yet!  On Tuesday’s the middle lovelies enjoy “Testimony Tuesday” and the speaker was talking about the importance of praying for each other and with each other.  On the fly, we decided to take all the kids to the school chapel and practice praying out loud.  She led us in beautiful prayer and demonstrated how to let the Holy Spirit send the words.  After she had prayed about a few of the kids intentions she asked if someone was willing to give it a try and pray for her.  She shared that she was newly pregnant and wanted someone to pray for that intention.  One faith filled courageous middle lovely volunteered to give it a try.  She did a fabulous job!  She prayed for a healthy baby and a good delivery; all the things you would expect someone to pray about but then she shocked me when she said, “And God, if this baby should happen to die, please help her know you will still be there to love her and take care of her.”  I was in tears and so was this beautiful woman.  The amazing thing about this prayer is that none of us had any idea that on that specific day, she had been troubled with the thought of losing that baby.  It was just heavy on her heart and none of us could possibly have known, but the Holy Spirit did and he put those words of blessing into the prayer of a child.  It was amazing!  As we sat there in the chapel I remembered the words of that speaker and I was determined to make it a false statement.  The next thing that came to mind was that I couldn’t expect the students to do something I wasn’t willing to do myself.

As with anything new and challenging, practice is the key.  Our mission is to get ourselves out of the way and just open our mouth and let the words of comfort, peace, love and blessing that can come only from God just come flowing out.  Awkwardness is a given at first but it goes away with experience.  Our willingness to waddle through something unfamiliar and frightening for the Glory of God is pleasing to the Lord and I’m all about pleasing the Lord how about you?

A Seed To Plant: You have 7 days to complete this task! Pick one person to pray out loud with.  If someone at work or school is going through a difficult or joyful time offer to pray together.  It can be as simple as Lord; I thank you for this person.  I ask your blessing upon them at this time, please wrap them in your loving protection and strengthen them.  Go ahead…give it a try…our eternity depends on it!

Blessings on your day!

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