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Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light for my path. 

– Psalm 119:105

Help Them Be Holy

8/23/2021

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Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. Hebrews 12:14

My dad always taught us that if we borrowed something, no matter what it was, we should return it in better condition than it was when we borrowed it. I’m pretty sure that applies to our children too.  Before our first baby was born, my Grandma told me that the children I would bear weren’t mine, rather, they were a precious gifts on loan from the Father and it was our primary responsibility as parents, to help them get to heaven.  Grandmas thinking may seem a bit countercultural today.  The word might have us think our primary task is to get our kids on the most prestigious teams, the most elite dane troops or into the most impressive schools. While we’re aiming for first string, first chair and top score, Jesus is begging us to show our children that nothing is more important than giving him first place in our lives. 

Holiness, simply put, is oneness with God so here are a few things we can do as parents to make good on our responsibility to help our kids grow in holiness and give the Lord first place.

*Pray with and for your kids every day. It’s hard for kids to understand the importance of Jesus and His Church if we rarely talk about it.

*Do as I do!  Our kids imitate what we model.  They need to see us pray, read scripture and trust in the Lord. We are teaching lessons when we’re cut off in traffic,  talking about the frustrating co-worker at dinner or putting an envelope in the Sunday collection.  

*As you travel to games, concerts, recitals and events, make sure to include some trips to the really important places like Sunday Mass, Eucharistic Adoration or even a quick stop to rest from the noise and chaos in a quiet, peaceful church.  As Catholic Christians, we know Jesus is with us always but a special stop to sit in his Eucharistic Presence is good for the soul.  It also shows our children that Jesus is important enough to stop for.

*Say NO to the things that don’t point your kids to heaven. That could be screen activity, movies, music or friendships.  Their holiness is more important than your popularity.

*Point them to the Holy Ones.  The world sets before our children people who don’t always use their gifts and talents to glorify God.  Since moving into a cave to shelter our kids from all of that isn’t  very practical, we can shower them with stories of the holy men and women of our faith.  Many of the saints lived crazy, amazing, adventurous lives and their stories are interesting and inspiring.  Put them before your kids to serve as heroes and role models.

“Holy enough” is not a thing…holiness is a continuous journey toward the Father so as we help our children grow in holiness, we will find ourselves growing too and that is a very good thing!

A Seed To Plant:  Pick something from the list and make a  plan to put it into action this week.​

Blessings on your day!




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Will J. Wabaunsee
8/23/2021 06:25:43 am

I have heard that that message from my parents as well, when we were at my dads funeral. As we were closing the casket my moms message to my dad. I got to you to heaven. Love you. I never thought of love as my job was to get others to heaven. Jesus was showing us the way through our parents. Have a blessed day!

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Paula Smith
8/24/2021 10:59:20 pm

Sherri, your messages ALWAYS leave me with something to think about and or be intentional about doing! You put SO much thought and effort into each article- even though you must have a TON of tasks to take care of, I am grateful I "found" you!

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