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Face Your Fears - Guest Blogger

5/7/2018

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This weekend I had the opportunity to speak at a conference for Deacons and their wives in the Diocese of Lubbock, TX.  As I sat in the audience waiting my turn to take the stage, I was wrestling with some fear.  The fear was self inflicted because the morning speakers were Deacon Dominick Pastore and his wife Teresa Tomeo Pastore.  Teresa Tomeo is a Catholic Rock Star!  She is a famous TV and Radio personality and the author of many powerful books.  To say I was a wee bit apprehensive to follow in the footsteps of such giants of the faith is an understatement. As I sat wrestling, I heard that familiar message of the Father that reminds me; Sheri, I’ve called you to be my servant, not a star.  Fear was trying to creep it’s way into my heart and that’s when I remembered a lesson taught by one of my own students who is todays guest blogger.  

Todays blogger is truly a sweet, gentle, beautiful daughter of God.  Melanie shares her many gifts and talents as easily as she shares her warm smile and her faithful spirit. 


“Don’t worry about tomorrow, tomorrow will take care of itself.” - Matthew 6:34

Last month, I nervously walked into the State Finals Spelling Bee with hundreds of thoughts twirling around my head. I had just placed 2nd in the Diocesan spelling bee to another speller, who seemed like she knew every word in the English language. This was my second state finals and I had studied very hard, but I still feared that my mind would go blank. I wanted to represent my school well, but a sense of worry loomed in the back of my mind. 

Just a while back, we began these books as a Lenten reflection in our class. The girls were reading, Make Every Day Count by Max Lucado. The book was a great tool to grow closer to Christ and it touched my heart in many places. But one chapter really spoke to me. It helped me with something I knew I had; fear!

Fear is one of the most negative energies out there. It originates from the feeling that God’s plan won’t work or we’re not good enough. Yet, fear is something we should embrace. But why?
Fear happens to everyone. It can actually be beneficial or harmful, but it depends how you look at it and how you use it. If we let what we’re scared of take over our minds and hearts, we could be in for some serious damage. Rather, take fear as an opportunity, not a burden. 

We can use fear to grow in holiness, because every day we can choose how to tackle it. Instead of running from our fears, we can run to God for the strength and guidance to overcome them. God hasn’t abandoned us; he is always waiting with open arms to aid us in our times of need. All we have to do is believe that he can help us and he does care about us. Because it’s true. But, we also must believe that he will help us, even if it doesn’t happen right away. We must still place our trust in God, even if we are waiting, or else we’ll begin to doubt Him and ask,“Can He do this?”  “Does He even care about me?” “I’m not sure He’ll even help…”  “Why isn’t God helping me?”

You may be wondering, why can’t I just let my fear go and that be the end of it? Well, to be able to let go of something, first you must embrace it. Just like you have to take the opportunity to run to Jesus and admit you have fears before you can get rid of them. 

As I stood up to that microphone to spell my first word, I realized that I was prepared and ready to do my best. And even if I did get out, God didn’t love me any less. I knew that Jesus was right by my side and he had everything under control.

A Seed to Plant: Imagine Jesus running toward you, and taking all your fears away. Offer up all of your worries to God today. 

Blessings on your day!​

Thank you Melanie…you are amazing!

6 Comments
Wendy Cammet
5/7/2018 08:25:08 am

Lovely words from a lovely girl! Great job Melanie!

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Becky Hicks
5/7/2018 02:49:29 pm

Amazing words to encourage thoughts of prayer, thank you for your blog, Melanie.

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Kathy Wood
5/7/2018 03:58:01 pm

Nice message Melanie.

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Jane Scollon
5/7/2018 09:17:39 pm

Nice job Melanie! What great words of wisdom!!

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Reba Sommer
5/8/2018 06:23:43 am

Thank you for sharing your experience with us Melanie! I am going to remember to embrace and run to Jesus!

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Tricia Vowels
5/8/2018 11:02:26 am

Hi Melanie, I am in Lubbock and have a friend who recently lost his wife. I am sending him your words about fear. I believe that they will help him. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful insight!

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