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Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light for my path. 

– Psalm 119:105

But God...

1/18/2016

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Teach me to do your will, for you are my God. May your kind spirit guide me on ground that is level.  Psalm 143:10

I was standing in the checkout line in the grocery store the other day behind a mom and her 5 year old daughter.  As the mother of grown children it was very easy for me to giggle at the conversation I was hearing because I have so “been there; done that” but I could really sympathize with the mom.  The daughter was a negotiator whose favorite phrase was “But Mom!”  If I had a dollar for each time that little girl said those words I could have paid for half my groceries! I was very impressed with the mother’s patience and creativity.  The little girl wanted; no NEEDED a variety of important things that afternoon like gum, a doll, tic-tacs, a dart gun and of course, sparkly shoes.  She carefully outlined all the reasons her needs were valid and each time mom would counter with logic she would say, “But mom” and then go on with three or four ideas to counter the wisdom of her mother.  As I stood there laughing to myself I wondered if that’s how we sound with God.

The truth of the matter is I think we do argue with God much like that little girl argued with her mom.  We try to come up with all kinds of rationale to convince him that our way is right and that there are really things we need.  Here is how I see the conversation goin down most days…
But God…I want to win the lottery, I’d use the money for lots of good thing; No child…I’ve given you enough.
But God…I should have gotten that, I’ve worked really hard; No child…that belonged to one of my other children, be patient, I have amazing things in store for you.
But God…I’m too busy to sit still and pray for 30 minutes, I’ve got so many things to do.  I mean after all, I am using the gifts and talents you gave me isn’t that good enough; No child…I want you to put me first and give me the first minutes of your day so I can show you what I have planned and believe me, it will be more productive and enjoyable and blessed than anything you could put on your to do list.
But God…I pray all the time, in the car, in the shower, in traffic, don’t you think that’s enough; No child… I want your full attention so I can speak to you in the silence and watch your heat become more connected to mine.
But God…Can’t you take away this suffering, it’s just too hard, I thought you loved me; No child…you are mistaken, suffering doesn’t mean I don’t love you, it means I’m strengthening you and refining you and you simply need to trust me more so I can lead you through this and by the way it will bring you so much closer to me than you were before.
But God…You need to stop making life so hard for me. I try to live a good life but I just keep seeing one disappointment after another while others get everything handed to them and have things so easy; No child…each of my children has a different path to heaven, stop comparing and know everything is perfectly designed to strengthen, purify and refine you so you can follow your own path to me.  Besides sweet child, you can only see with your eyes what’s on the surface, you have no idea what someone else’s path is like; only I know that.
But God…don’t you see what they’re doing?  It’s not fair that I follow the rules while other people do whatever they want and good things keep happening to them, maybe I should stop worrying so much about doing everything right and just live however I want; No child…If you love me you will follow my commands and please don’t judge others, that’s my job and it’s only making your heart dark and snatching away the joy I want you to share.
But God…I want peace, mercy, kindness and goodness in this world; Good my child…then love me, trust me, and pray for those things every day and let me take it from there.  You need to slow down, share my love and let the joy that comes from our friendship spill out everywhere…that’s how you get everything you want.  Now just be quiet child and let me take perfect care of you; I’ve been doing this job since the beginning of time and I’m pretty good at it!

A Seed To Plant:  Make a list of all the things you argue with God about and let him speak to them in the quiet of your prayer time.  He’s a pretty skilled negotiator!

Blessings on your day!
 
 

2 Comments
Reba Sommer
1/18/2016 06:06:30 am

Thank you, Sheri.

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brenda
1/20/2016 09:59:08 am

wonderful blog!!! It wouldn't surprise me at all if that is how it is with God and ourselves.

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