Great Friends

May is busy; so todays post is an old story worth telling again.  I was at a wedding last weekend with some of the great friends I mention in this post and we laughed about this day…so here’s to a great story re-told!



“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes?  Matthew 6:25

Have you ever noticed how something really terrific can come from a disaster?  Sunday, our second son graduated from high school and we hosted his open house that same day because my dad was here with us for the weekend.  Mexican was his menu choice and I had it planned down to the last detail plus a generous padding of “extra food” because nobody wants to be the party host who runs short on food. Well…it happened…I started to run low on food and my heart sank somewhere down into my shoes.

It would have been a disaster if it hadn’t been for the awesome crew of friends that flocked into my kitchen and saved the day.  We cooked some more…we emptied the fridge and a couple of them went home and brought back the contents of their own fridge and pantry. At one point some dads were chopping up  watermelon and they chased me out of my own kitchen telling me to leave and enjoy the guests.  They took over and amazed me with their friendship, generosity and helpfulness. What a blessing.

When I first started to realize the food was flying off the serving table so quickly I slipped into the office for a minute to pray.  The verse from Matthew's Gospel  came to mind and I said, “Jesus I trust you!”  I chose not to panic. I chose to believe if He could feed 5,000 He could feed a couple hundred and I chose to believe the words of t and not worry.  Within minutes the unsolicited help started filing into the kitchen.  God paints the dots on a ladybug and He provided me with friends who knew how to save the day…how lucky am I!  No detail is too large or too small for such a loving Father.

I’m still scratching my head at the events of the day, but mostly I’m thanking the Good Lord for the blessing of friends and the grace of generous hearts.  I will be the first to admit I am a MARTHA right to my core, so the day was a lesson in humility.  I was reminded to be more like MARY and enjoy the “better part”.  Sunday the “better part” was friendship and the surprising way God hears and answers when we trust.  The other part of the blessing that day was enjoying the wonderful people who came to help us celebrate Jason’s special day.  Martha here,  would have missed that if it hadn’t been for the friends who chased me out of the kitchen.

Today it doesn’t matter that I would have done exactly the same thing for any one of those friends…what mattered is that they did it for me and I’m grateful and blessed.  I’ve re-calculated my food list and I’m still baffled, but I finally wadded up the paper work and threw it in the trash because it doesn’t matter.  If everything would have worked out according to “my plan” I would have missed the beauty of “His plan”…and as usual…He’s a much better planner than me!  I thank God for those good friends.  As one of them said to me years ago, "You know someone is a good friend when they can walk into your kitchen and wash your dishes.”  I’m thrilled to report I had LOTS of those kind of good friends on Sunday.  May God smile sweetly on each of them!

A Seed To Plant: As you plod through this day, stop and ask God where this verse might fit.​

Blessings on your day!