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Square Peg, Round Hole

5/2/2019

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My heart is restless until it finds its rest in thee. St. Augustine 

When my kids were little they had a toy that both entertained and frustrated them. It was a red plastic ball with openings of different shapes and sizes.  The object was to insert the correct shape into the corresponding opening.  My toddlers couldn’t always see the difference between a circle and an oval or a square and a rectangle so there were many attempts to jam the wrong shape into the wrong hole.  Just like my kids, we too sometimes try to make things fit where they don’t quite belong.

We were created in the image and likeness of the God who loves us. Our hearts were meant to fit perfectly in his but we often forget that and try to pack ourselves into roles where we don’t fit.  When the toy pieces didn’t fit together the kids would bang, push, and get frustrated until they slowed down and looked things over carefully and attempted to put the pieces in gently and purposefully.  During those times in life when we struggle to make things fit according to our plan, we experience that same chaos and frustration.  God has the perfect antidote; rest in him.  Only he knows how our life should fit together and he simply asks us to love and serve him while we wait for him to put all the pieces in the perfect spot.

The next time we hit that place of chaos and frustration we need to slow down and ask the Lord to calm us down and rest a bit as he puts the pieces back in the order he desires.

A Seed To Plant:  Take some quiet minutes in prayer to ask yourself if their are there pieces in your life that don’t seem to fit together? Are you the person God is asking you to be or you trying to invent yourself?  Rest a while in his presence and ask him.​

Blessings on your day!

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Live It

9/17/2018

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For we walk by Faith and not by sight. 2 Corinthians 5:7

Sometimes scripture can reach right up off the page and punch you in the nose!  This verse socked me hard just as I was getting ready to throw my own little pity party.  I’ve had several “careful what you wish for” moments this week and instead of throwing a fit, I decided to see what my Father had to say about things and this is right where I landed!

We follow a mighty God and he always leads us perfectly but sometimes we freak out a little when we realize we can’t see Him, or the path He has for us.  I had to remind myself that my sight and His work were not necessarily a package deal.  I have to live like I trust Him and live like I love him.  This fall He has asked me to do some pretty crazy stuff and my heart has wound up in a twist several times but through it all I know He leads me.

It’s crazy how we go through warps of time where we are called to question everything we do.  There are seasons of life where change seems to come at you like rapid fire from a Nerf gun.  They aren’t all painful but they just keep coming.  My role as a mother and wife has changed as the kids have all moved out.  My role as a teacher has changed as education standards and practices have changed, my speaking ministry has blossomed and provided exciting travel opportunities and another ministry opportunity appeared from nowhere.  I’m doing crazy fun things like meeting amazing people, doing radio interviews, not cooking every night because there are actually leftovers and helping 6th grade football and volleyball players learn to lead school prayer services.  I’m beginning to realize that I’m not so young anymore.  Several times recently I’ve been at meetings or events and found myself the oldest person in the room.  My hair is sprouting some gray and my eyes have led me to be the owner of multiple pairs of reading glasses stashed everywhere!  I’ve wondered a hundred times lately if I’m smart enough, funny enough, dedicated enough, energetic enough, young enough, old enough, prayerful enough and compassionate enough. 

When I read this verse from Corinthians I realized I’m asking too many questions and trying to apply logic to God and that never works.  I’m trying to SEE when He’s asking me simply to believe.  That is so much easier!  I don’t have to have answers to any of those silly questions, I just have to remind myself that I AM HIS and none of the rest of it matters.  He will put me where I should be, doing what I should do, the way He wants it done, when it’s time.  I just have to remember to walk by faith and find the joy He’s so generously sprinkling along the journey. 

A Seed To Plant:  Sit a while and pray about those spots you are having trouble navigating by faith and not by sight.​

Blessings on your day!

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But Why?

7/12/2018

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"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” John 16:33

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about all the people knee deep in lousy stuff.  I have gotten many emails and texts in the past few weeks from people who need prayer to navigate their way through life.  There is sickness, distress, family and job difficulties and some of these requests are swirling really close to home.  I’m so happy they ask for prayer, and I’ve been praying my little tail off and absolutely; I trust, I believe and my faith is strong as a bolder but every now and again I just wanna say, “Hey, wait a dog-gone minute God, this is all too much!”  I’m sure that comment during prayer is followed by a  heavenly face-palm!  

The big question I’ve been hearing from those folks struggling is, “If God loves us, why does this lousy stuff happen?”  I would have to say that’s a completely fair question and I wish like heck I could type an answer to make it all better but here is the truth, A) God doesn’t MAKE bad stuff happen and he loves us even harder when it does and B) Sometimes there isn’t a simple answer to complicated things. With my heart a little heavy, I’ve spent some time prayin, and thinkin and here are some of the things that made me feel better.

There is a big difference in being involved and being in control.  God is completely involved in our lives and the more we pray and grow in our relationship with him, the more involved he will be.  Because of our free will, God does not control our lives.  Some of the distress I’ve been asked to pray for is the result of someone doing something lousy with their free will and leaving others to suffer in the wake of poor choices.  God cannot be in control of that but he can absolutely be involved in our lives as we navigate through it if we invite him to meet us there and lead us through. He won’t wave a magic wand and make it all disappear but he will give us the grace and the strength to endure the difficulties if we ask.

Bad stuff isn’t part of God’s plan.  He doesn’t give people cancer or trap children in a cave because his “master plan” indicated it’s time for it.  That is not how a loving Father operates.  If a dad decided to go for a walk with his son, and along the way the son stepped in a gopher hole and hurt his ankle that would be a lousy thing.  Lousy as it is, the dad didn’t make it happen.  He was absolutely there but he didn’t plan it or want it to happen; he wasn’t in control of it, but you can bet your bottom dollar that he instantly became involved.  He felt the hurt, he poured out compassion and comfort and he did everything possible to aid in his sons healing.  

If God controlled everything, we might think life would be easier and long gone would be fear, suffering and pain.  I suppose in some ways that makes sense but because of our sinful nature (thank you Adam, Eve and Satan) we want what we want and we aren’t always so good at  trusting and following the rules, let alone being completely controlled, so this idea has some holes. God doesn’t force his love or his perfect will on us, it’s up to us to choose to love, trust, surrender and follow him.   When we’re tempted to think God makes bad things happen it’s good to remember a few truths from scripture. Jesus heals the sick; he doesn’t bring about their illness. Often the healing isn’t physical but it is spiritual and the result of that healing can lead to our salvation. Jesus liberates the oppressed; he doesn’t prolong their oppression.  Jesus sets the prisoner free; he doesn’t imprison.  Jesus restores a broken creation; he doesn’t further cripple it through disease, suffering, and pain.

When I find myself feeling overwhelmed about the sadness or madness of a lousy situation, I have to reach for the three biggest truth of all. They’re stiff ones and sometimes they go down like vinegar but they are enormous truth spoken in even bigger love.  The first; every situation no matter how sad or tragic or difficult, is a situation where God can bring about a greater good.  The part that makes that really tough to wrap our heads and hearts around is sometimes we hurt too much to see the good and often the greater good is for someone else.  The second; Scripture says, there will be trouble and it is only through suffering we can fully come to Christ.  When I realize that, and stop to contemplate the suffering of both the Father and the Son; done for me…it really puts things in perspective.  Finally, heaven is the reward, not earth.  As humans, we cling to the familiar and fear the unknown.  If we could begin to unwrap even a tiny corner of the delight, glory and absolute magnificence of eternal life we would run from this world so fast we’d be nothing but a streak!   

The lousy stuff is never what we wish for and it’s never handed out as a punishment but there is love, healing, and even salvation  when we truly let the Father get involved and walk with us through the lousy.  The lousy stuff is where God shows his power, his compassion and his amazing ability to unite, support and draw people closer to each other and to heaven.

A Seed To Plant: Spend some time asking God to be involved in your struggles or the struggles of someone you love.  Trust him and then watch to see the way he works.​

Blessings on your day! 












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Great Friends

5/31/2018

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May is busy; so todays post is an old story worth telling again.  I was at a wedding last weekend with some of the great friends I mention in this post and we laughed about this day…so here’s to a great story re-told!



“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes?  Matthew 6:25

Have you ever noticed how something really terrific can come from a disaster?  Sunday, our second son graduated from high school and we hosted his open house that same day because my dad was here with us for the weekend.  Mexican was his menu choice and I had it planned down to the last detail plus a generous padding of “extra food” because nobody wants to be the party host who runs short on food. Well…it happened…I started to run low on food and my heart sank somewhere down into my shoes.

It would have been a disaster if it hadn’t been for the awesome crew of friends that flocked into my kitchen and saved the day.  We cooked some more…we emptied the fridge and a couple of them went home and brought back the contents of their own fridge and pantry. At one point some dads were chopping up  watermelon and they chased me out of my own kitchen telling me to leave and enjoy the guests.  They took over and amazed me with their friendship, generosity and helpfulness. What a blessing.

When I first started to realize the food was flying off the serving table so quickly I slipped into the office for a minute to pray.  The verse from Matthew's Gospel  came to mind and I said, “Jesus I trust you!”  I chose not to panic. I chose to believe if He could feed 5,000 He could feed a couple hundred and I chose to believe the words of t and not worry.  Within minutes the unsolicited help started filing into the kitchen.  God paints the dots on a ladybug and He provided me with friends who knew how to save the day…how lucky am I!  No detail is too large or too small for such a loving Father.

I’m still scratching my head at the events of the day, but mostly I’m thanking the Good Lord for the blessing of friends and the grace of generous hearts.  I will be the first to admit I am a MARTHA right to my core, so the day was a lesson in humility.  I was reminded to be more like MARY and enjoy the “better part”.  Sunday the “better part” was friendship and the surprising way God hears and answers when we trust.  The other part of the blessing that day was enjoying the wonderful people who came to help us celebrate Jason’s special day.  Martha here,  would have missed that if it hadn’t been for the friends who chased me out of the kitchen.

Today it doesn’t matter that I would have done exactly the same thing for any one of those friends…what mattered is that they did it for me and I’m grateful and blessed.  I’ve re-calculated my food list and I’m still baffled, but I finally wadded up the paper work and threw it in the trash because it doesn’t matter.  If everything would have worked out according to “my plan” I would have missed the beauty of “His plan”…and as usual…He’s a much better planner than me!  I thank God for those good friends.  As one of them said to me years ago, "You know someone is a good friend when they can walk into your kitchen and wash your dishes.”  I’m thrilled to report I had LOTS of those kind of good friends on Sunday.  May God smile sweetly on each of them!

A Seed To Plant: As you plod through this day, stop and ask God where this verse might fit.​

Blessings on your day!


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